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Perseverance PDF Print E-mail

A well-known proverb upholds, "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again!"  Traced back to The Teacher's Manual (1840) by American educator Thomas H. Palmer and The Children of the New Forest(1847) by English novelist Frederick Maryat (1792-1848), this maxim was originally used to encourage American school children to do their homework.  Palmer (1782-1861) wrote in his manual:  "'Tis a lesson you should heed, try, try again.  If at first you don't succeed, try, try again."  The saying was popularized by Edward Hickson (1803-70) in his Moral Song (1857) and is now relevant to any kind of pursuit (Random House, New York, 1996, Page 154).

Simply stated, this wise proverb speaks about PERSEVERANCE!

What is perseverance?

  • Perseverance is commitment, hard work, patience and endurance.
  • Perseverance is being able to face challenges head-on with a positive attitude.
  • Perseverance is trying again and again; it's core determination.

Conversely, people who persevere don't

  • escape or avoid problems;
  • blame other people;
  • blame chance, or
  • blame other things, forces or powers.

How can we show perseverance?

  • Try something new, even if it's challenging - but don't give up.  Stay determined even if you're discouraged - putting your best foot forward.
  • Try your best!
  • Work hard!
  • Take responsibility for your own actions.
  • Make wise choices with positive outcomes.
  • Have an "I can" attitude.
  • Do without something "good" for something "better."
  • Always finish what you start.

During the month of April AIS-R Middle school will honor students who exemplify PERSEVERANCE!

~Holly Raatz

"Tis a lesson you should heed,
Try, try again.
If at first  you don't succeed,
Try, try again.
-Thomas H. Palmer (1782 - 1861) Teacher's Manual (1840)

Diligence is the mother of good luck.
Benjamin  Franklin

We can do anything we want to if we stick to it long enough.
Helen Keller

Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they game up.
Thomas Edison

"Perseverance." Web.30 Mar. 2010. http://www.k12.hi.us/~mkunimit/perseverance.htm.

"Re:  If at First You Don't Succeed. . ." The Meanings of Origins of Sayings and Phrases/Meaning of Idioms. Web. 30 Mar. 2010. http://www.phrases.org.uk/bulletin_board/5/messages/276.html.

 
Taking Healthy Risks PDF Print E-mail

February's "Star Student" Trait of the Month is Taking Healthy Risks

AIS-R Middle School "Star Students" chosen during February will be given personal recognition for the exceptional character quality of being a healthy risk taker.

Healthy risk-taking is a positive tool in an adolescent's life for discovering, developing, and strengthening his or her character.  Risk Taking is the courage to begin a course of action or make a decision even though disappointment or failure may be a possibility.  Risk takers realize that no one succeeds 100% of the time, and on occasion more can be learned from failure than success.

Everyone needs to be able to take healthy risks in life.  Risk taking is a crucial ingredient to learning, growth, and development.  In reality, a person who consistently avoids risks due to worry or fear of failure may minimize their overall potential for success.

Coleman Hawking, a famous American jazz tenor saxophonist, acknowledged, "If you don't make mistakes, you aren't really trying."  As well, if you never try, how can you succeed?

There is a major critical difference between calculated, healthy risk taking and impulsive risk taking.  A calculated risk - often understood as a "challenge" - is one that is thought out in advance; is balanced with little chance for hurt or negative consequences.  Impulsivity, however, is a trait that has a strong link to potentially negative outcomes.  Healthy, calculated risk taking, researchers believe, also has a predictive value for positive behaviour, affirmative self esteem, and success in life.

Middle School teachers will be selecting those students who not only take healthy risks academically, but socially and emotionallly as well.  It takes courage for students to "have a go" and put forth the spirited effort to better themselves while contributing positively to those around them.  Healthy risk takers are authentic learners, and they make a positive difference at AIS-R Middle School!

Holly Raatz

"Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly."

Robert F. Kennedy

"Only those who risk going too far can possibly find out how far they can go"
T.S. Eliot

Sources:

Acquilano, Nelson. "High Risk Factors for Teens." Web.  7 Sept. 2009. <http://www.middleweb.com/adolesrisk.html>.

"CreatingMinds - quotes and quotations from the wise on all matters creative." CreatingMinds - tools, techniques, methods, quotes and quotations on all matters creative. Web. 2 Feb. 2010. <http://creatingminds.org/quotes/daring.htm>.

Ponton, Lynn E.  The Romance of Risk Why Teenagers Do the Things They Do. New York: Basic, 1998. Print.

"Risk Quotes." Goal Setting. Web. 2 Feb. 2010.<http://www.goal4success.com/risk-quotes/index.html>.

 
Effective Communication Skills PDF Print E-mail

March's "Star Student" Trait of the Month is Effective Communication Skills

The ability to communicate effectively is an essential skill for success in life.  A recent report from the Partnership for 21st Century Skills focuses on six key elements for 21st century learning.  The ability to "use knowledge and skills to think critically and communicate clearly" is highlighted under the key element of "Learning Skills." Students who can think critically and communicate effectively build from a broad base of core academic subject skills, knowledge and understanding.

Communication is a powerful tool.  Both nonverbal and verbal communication skills are a vital part of everyday life.  Information cannot be effectively acknowledged, shared or exchanged without using good communication skills.  To clearly and successfully communicate, or share information with others at a thorough level of understanding, is a critical life skill.  Good communicators are interesting to listen to; they have something to say that is worth consideration.  Good communicators are curious, eager to learn, and eager to share openly with others- knowing what they want to say, how to say it, and why they want to share it.

Good communication skills are learned.  It takes effort, commitment and practice, and is an essential key to success in the 21st century.  Benefits of good communication skills are endless!  During the month of March, AIS-R Middle School will be highlighting outstanding students who strive to communicate clearly and effectively.

Holly Raatz

Sources:

Carney, Susan.  "Communication Builders:  Strategies for Talking to Teens."  Communication Builders:  Strategies for Talking to Teens (2007). Youth Development. Web. 10 Feb. 2010.<http://http://youthdevelopment.suite101.com/article.cfm/communication_builders>.

Effective Communication Skills - A Good Communication Skills Resource. Web. 10 Feb. 2010. <http://www.comunicationskillsinfo.com/>.

"Equipped for the Future - EFF Fundamentals." Equipped for the Future - Portal. Web 28 Feb.2010. <http://eff.cls.utk.edu/fundamentals/eff_standards.htm>.

Salpeter, Judy. "21st Century Skills:  Will Our Students Be Prepared?" Tech & Learning (2008): 1-4. Web. 10 Feb. 2010. <http://http://www.techlearning.com/article/13832>.

The Partnership for 21st Century Skills - Home. Web. 10 Feb. 2010. <http://www.21stcenturyskills.org>.

 
Caring PDF Print E-mail

December's "Star Student" trait of the month is Caring!

Middle School "Star Students" chosen during December will be given personal recognition for the exceptional character quality of being caring.  Each grade level team will choose one boy and one girl who exemplifies this valuable 'star student' trait.

Caring is a quality of good character.  Caring people are 'charitable', giving of their time, support and comfort to others without expecting anything in return.  Caring people feel and exhibit concern and empathy for others; "caring friends" are treasures.

Synonymous with caring are qualities such as being compassionate, loving, kind, approachable, accepting, sensitive, tender, sympathetic, responsive, receptive, considerate, warmhearted, supportive and understanding.

Companionable with caring is Steven Covey's "Habit #5" of highly effective teens: SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND, THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD.

You have two ears and one mouth.

Listen to people sincerely.

When we listen with the intent to understand others, rather than with the intent to reply, we begin true communication and relationship building.

Seeking to understand takes kindness; seeking to be understood takes courage.  Effectiveness lies in balancing the two.

From caring comes courage.

Lao Tzu

Never believe that a few caring people can't change the world.  For, indeed, that's all who ever have.

Margaret Mead

A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside.

Denis Waitley

 
Trustworthiness PDF Print E-mail

November's "Star Student" trait of the Month is Trustworthiness!

Middle School "Star Students" chosen during November will be given personal recognition for the exceptional character quality of being trustworthy.  Each grade level team will choose one boy and one girl who exemplifies this valuable "star student" trait.

Trust is the basis of all good relationships and a keystone of good character.  Trustworthy people keep their promises, are honest, reliable, and principled.  Being trustworthy and being trusted are essential to building positive relationships and a healthy school environment.

When we are trustworthy, others can place confidence in us because they know we will honor our commitments.  "My word is my promise," is a mantra of trustworthy people.  Those who are trustworthy can be believed in and be held in higher esteem.  At the same time, trustworthy people set high, yet realistic expectations for themselves and strive to consistently live up to the expectations of others.  They refrain from deceit or self-serving behavior that can quickly destroy relationships.

Trustworthiness is a highly valued character trait and comprises a variety of qualities like honesty, integrity, reliablity and loyalty.

"Trust is the highest form of human motivation." - Stephan Covey

"Trust builds relationships.  Relationships build people." Duane Hodgin

 
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